Connecting With Your Higher-Self

When you want to listen to a particular radio station, you tune your radio to that station by tuning it to a specific frequency. The same is needed when you want to watch a particular channel on your TV.

It is the frequency you tune into that determines what you hear and what you see.

Our brains operate in very much the same way, except that we only have two stations that we can tune into - the ‘ego station’ and the ‘higher-self station’.

The ‘ego station’ is the station that originates in the programmed mind, which contains all of our limiting beliefs that hold us back and create our fears. The ego station is our wounded self, our false self. It’s the protected and conditioned self that we learned to be as we were growing up, and needed to find ways to have control over getting love and praise, avoiding pain, and feeling safe. Our wounded self is a closed circuit - it operates on old information that we acquired as we were growing up. This old information is no longer relevant or even true. The wounded self is not open to new information or truth.

The ‘higher-self station’ is the station that taps into the unlimited information from the universe. This information is that which is beyond the programmed mind. The higher-self station taps into the Source of truth that is always here to guide us in our highest good.

How do you tune your frequency to your higher-self station?

We’ve all been given a "dial" that allows us to either tune to the low frequency of our ego station, or to the high frequency of our higher-self station. This dial is our INTENT.

We ultimately only have two intents to choose from:

1. The intent to get love and avoid pain with some form of controlling behaviour; or

2. The intent to learn about loving ourselves and others.

The intent to have control over getting love and avoiding pain lowers our frequency and keeps us stuck in our limited, ego, mind. When we choose this intent/frequency, we are stuck with the unloving thoughts and actions that create fear, anxiety, depression, guilt, shame, stress, anger, jealousy, resentment, and other negative feelings. The ego frequency is the frequency of being a victim. 

At any moment, we can change our minds and choose the intent to learn. To learn about love and what is in our highest good, and to learn about our ego mind rather than stay stuck in it. The moment we choose the intent to learn about love, we raise our frequency and are able to access the ‘higher-self station’.

This is like moving out of the limitations of our personal computer and into the possibilities of the Internet - only better.

The only thing that stops us from choosing the higher-self station is our addiction to control. The ego mind wants control over our feelings, over the feelings and actions of other people, and over the outcome of things. When our desire for control is greater than our desire to be loving to ourselves and others, and greater than our desire to live in truth, we will remain stuck in the ego station.

The ego station tells us that we can have control over things that we actually have no control over, such as other people and their thoughts and actions, and outcomes that we desire.

Our feelings are an inner guidance system, that lets us know when we’re either on-track or off-track in our thinking and behaviour. It’s important that we acknowledge and identify our feelings instead of trying to control them or ignore them.

When you choose the intent to learn about loving yourself and others, and tuning into your higher-self station, you will discover great joy and access the incredible information that is your truth.