Is it possible that the world’s greatest
achievers think completely differently from the majority of people?Do you think the Wright brothers could ever have
achieved what they did if they hadn’t believed it could be done? Was Mark
Spitz’s seven gold medals in swimming a result of thoughts such as “I can’t do
this”?
Have you ever thought that success in any chosen
subject, such as financial, business or sporting, could be, and was, achieved
whilst the individual was in a state of negativity (i.e. they had thoughts that
they couldn’t achieve what they wanted)?
Positive thinking will help you to get past any
challenge or obstacle in your life. Having a negative mindset closes your mind
to possibilities, whereas a positive mindset helps you to keep an open mind,
which will help you to find solutions to a problem you’re facing, or help you to
look for the positives in an event that may at first seem negative.
One of the biggest problems we face in modern
society is that we are constantly surrounded by negativity and fear. This comes
from a variety of sources including the news, social media and the people
around us.
I’ve been in the company of negative thinkers,
and if you don’t already know, I can tell you that their influence, if allowed
to go unchecked, is very powerful and destructive. Imagine it’s like placing a
piece of rotting fruit in a bowl of fresh fruit – the fresh fruit soon starts
to rot simply by being next to the rotting fruit.
This is why it is
paramount that if you want to be successful in life, you must surround
yourself with positive thinking individuals, and to share your positive
thoughts and attitudes with like-minded people.
It’s just as important to keep your thoughts
positive when you’re alone, and you don’t have the influence of positive people
around you. One of the simplest ways you can do this is to write your goals
down and place them in a position where you can see and read them on a daily
basis. By regularly reminding yourself of, and thinking about, your goals, you’re
giving your mind something positive to focus on.
Writing down your goals has also been shown to
have a positive impact on your likelihood of achieving them. In the late
1950’s, 1,500 students of Yale University were sent a questionnaire with topics
ranging from the quality of food being served in the canteen to how easy it was
to get books out of the library. However, it’s the
last two questions that are of interest to us.
These questions were:
- “Do you have an ambition in your life?”
- “Have you written it down?”
Twenty-five years later, after discovering the
existence of the questionnaires, a postgraduate student decided to carry out
further research on these last two questions. The postgraduate student found
that over 75% of the students who completed the questionnaire had ambitions for
their lives. However, only 3.3% of the students (51 of them) had actually
written their ambitions down.
After tracking down as many of the 51 students
as he could, he found that most of them had gone on to realise their dreams in
their chosen professions. The remaining students he'd managed to contact told him that most of what they had achieved had happened more by chance than
design. They had ended up in careers that they hadn’t planned for because they
didn’t define what it was that they were actually seeking to do.
These results show us two things:
1. Writing down our goals and dreams helps us to
actively program our subconscious to go after what we want in life.
2. The more specific we are about our goals and
dreams, the more accurately we’ll achieve them.
Now that you know the importance of keeping your
thoughts positive by having clearly defined goals and surrounding yourself with
positive people, what changes can you make to your daily life to help you live
a more fulfilling, joyful and purposeful life?
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